Woman with loose pussys
They say size counts, but, let's face it, it's not always a man's size that determines how his manhood holds up in lover's lane. There are a myriad of myths that surround a woman's Mount Pleasant, and while a man's measurement is often called into question, the size of the camp ground is another rumor that suggests how successful a stay the trip was. There exists a misconception surrounding vaginal tautness, with virgins being tighter and promiscuous women being looser, and we hope to dispel these rumors thanks to the help of Psychology Today , as well as input by sex therapist Dr. Ava Cadell , founder of LoveologyUniversity. The first thing to remember is that women, like men, come in different sizes. It's important to understand that vaginal musculature is elastic, meaning it naturally contracts and resumes its normal size and shape, both after sexual intercourse as well as childbirth. However, the relaxation of her muscles does not mean the vagina stretches or grows into a cavernous space; it merely makes room for the man, as a tight vagina would hinder our evolutionary need to procreate. This is when men come into the equation. If a woman feels too tight during sex, chances are she is not fully aroused. According to the Psychology Today article, it takes approximately 30 minutes of foreplay before a woman is aroused to the point of vaginal relaxation.
You could argue for hours about which gender has it tougher when it comes to sex and dating.
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I find the former far less offensive and far more understandable.
When it comes to the vagina, there are a lot of myths and misconceptions. Some people, for example, believe that vaginas can lose their elasticity and become loose forever. Your vagina is elastic. This means it can stretch to accommodate things coming in think: a penis or sex toy or going out think: a baby. Your vagina may become slightly looser as you age or have children, but overall, the muscles expand and retract just like an accordion or a rubber band. Tight vaginal muscles, then, could make a sexual encounter painful or impossible to complete. Extreme vaginal tightness could also be a sign of vaginismus. This is a treatable physical disorder that affects 1 in every women, according to the University of California, Santa Barbara. Vaginismus is pain that happens before or during penetration. This could mean sexual intercourse, slipping in a tampon, or inserting a speculum during a pelvic exam.
Here's what can change the size and shape of things down below. We're always trying to get to the bottom of sexual health rumors, and one we've been hearing for a while really needs an investigation. This one has it that the size of a woman's vagina is related to how much sex she's had. Dweck tells Health. Here's what she means by that. But this all reverses once the arousal state and the sex is over, says Dr. There is one exception to this, according to Dr. So if sex doesn't have a loosening effect on the vagina, what does, if anything? Childbirth can permanently stretch the vaginal canal and opening, especially if an instrument like forceps or a vacuum is used during a delivery. Sherry A.
You could argue for hours about which gender has it tougher when it comes to sex and dating. Everything is laid bare. Generally, the consensus is that it matters to an extent, but technique plays a significant role as well … that is, until you hit certain extremes. Well, that reasoning can cut both ways. A spacious vagina reduces friction as much as a tiny penis, and with the same disappointing outcomes. Stimulation for guys in particular is about friction. Generally, you fit around us like a glove. We feel friction in degrees.
With a loose vagina, I could only come in contact with a small percentage of her surface area, if you will, at any given time. Imagine a guy trying to masturbate without closing his hand, and that will sort of paint the picture however awkwardly.
Finishing is out of the question and even staying aroused at all is in jeopardy. Or work on your other skills. You can bet the guy with a 3-inch penis is practicing his cunnilingus game.
Sign up for the Thought Catalog Weekly and get the best stories from the week to your inbox every Friday. You may unsubscribe at any time. By subscribing, you agree to the terms of our Privacy Statement. My first encounter with a loose vagina was a little jarring. It can be an all-around awkward situation for everybody.
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